Father of my two bastards. I want that.
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Via Distinguishing serenity from ennui.
1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged? Yes
2. You talked to an ex today, correct? Unfortunately. First time in a month though
3. Have you taken someones virginity? No
4. Is trust a big issue for you? No
5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently? Yes
6. What are you excited for? Going to my dad’s this weekend and the new boy in my life
7. What happened tonight? I downloaded a bunch of Tupac songs
8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted? No
9. Is confidence cute? Yes
10. What is the last beverage you had? Pepsi
11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust? A few.. I don’t know how many
12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans? Yes
13. What are you gonna do Saturday night? Be at my dad’s
14. What are you going to spend money on next? Food I’m sure
15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed? Sort of I guess
16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months? Probably not
17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything? Sissy or JT or Matt
18. The last time you felt broken? About a month ago or so
19. Have you had sex today? No
20. Are you starting to realize anything? Not really
21. Are you in a good mood? Yes
22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks? No
23. Are your eyes the same color as your dad’s? No
24. What do you want right this second? To make a Tupac ringtone lol
25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy? I would be pretty upset about it
26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color? Yes
27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh? No
28. What was the last thing that made you laugh? How I Met Your Mother
29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now? Sort of
30. Does everyone deserve a second chance? No
31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to? No
32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do? Yes
33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda? No but I wanna be lol
34. Listening to? Tupac!
35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore? Yes
36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is? Yes
37. Do you believe in love at first sight? With babies
38. Who did you last call? My mom
39. Who was the last person you danced with? Good question.. I don’t remember
40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed? Cause I wanted to?
41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake? A while
42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today? No
43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush? Probably
44. Do you tan in the nude? I can’t tan lol
45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss? No
46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night? Basically
47. Who was the last person to call you? The Mary Kay rep but I was sleeping so I didn’t answer
48. Do you sing in the shower? Yes
49. Do you dance in the car? Yes
50. Ever used a bow and arrow? Yes
51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer? My senior pictures lol
52. Do you think musicals are cheesy? Not all of them
53. Is Christmas stressful? Only when I don’t have any money
54. Ever eat a pierogi? No
55. Favorite type of fruit pie? Peach cobbler =)
56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? Teacher, Lawyer, Architect
57. Do you believe in ghosts? No
58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? Yes
59. Take a vitamin daily? No
60. Wear slippers? No
61. Wear a bath robe? No
62. What do you wear to bed? Alone a tshirt and shorts, with someone maybe a shirt and undies.. sounds backwards, I know.
63. First concert? N/a
64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? I like Target’s stuff better but I go to Wal Mart more
65. Nike or Adidas? Nike
66. Cheetos Or Fritos? Neither
67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds? Sunflower seeds
68. Favorite Taylor Swift song? Tim McGraw
69. Ever take dance lessons? No
70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? No
71. Can you curl your tongue? Yes
72. Ever won a spelling bee? No
73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy? Yes
74. What is your favorite book? Harry Potter/Outlander
75. Do you study better with or without music? Don’t know.. never study
76. Regularly burn incense? No
77. Ever been in love? Yes
78. Who would you like to see in concert? Michael Bublé
79. What was the last concert you saw? n/a
80. Hot tea or cold tea? cold
81. Tea or coffee? tea
82. Favorite type of cookie? snickerdoodle
83. Can you swim well? yes
84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? yes
85. Are you patient? no
86. DJ or band, at a wedding? DJ prob
87. Ever won a contest? maybe
88. Ever have plastic surgery? no
89. Which are better black or green olives? neither
90. Opinions on sex before marriage? need it
91. Best room for a fireplace? living room or family room
92. Do you want to get married? yes
(Source: feetreadyheartbeatsteady)
“I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren’t pretty, or smart, or young. They’re still princesses. All of us.”
(Source: malditaebriedad)
Keep Ya Head Up-Tupac ♥
And since we all came from a woman
Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman
I wonder why we take from our women
Why we rape our women, do we hate our women?
I think it’s time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies, that make the babies
And since a man can’t make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
So will the real men get up
I know you’re fed up ladies, but keep your head up
A few weeks ago my mom stapled pages of a story in one of her women’s magazines together and handed it to me. She gave it to me pretty much with the tag lines “for your feminist blog” and “something new to consider.” Indeed it was; she knows me well.
The story is titled “I was forced to be pregnant.” With a title like that, reading it was actually not on the top of my to read list. I thought it was about women not exercising their right to choice. I was very, very wrong on that one.
Have you ever heard of Reproductive coercion? It is a term that was quite recently coined by the advocates against domestic violence to describe a certain type of abuse some women face. It occurs when a man pressures their partner to have kids and/or impregnates them against their will. Reproductive coercion comes in three different types:
1. Emotional pressure that turns into verbal and physical abuse.
2. Sabotaging birth control
3. Marital rape
Over 75% of women 19-49 who reported once experiencing domestic violence also endured some type of reproductive control by men. It’s all about control and domination over a woman’s body.The first story in the magazine is about a woman who got married around 36 years of age. After a few months of dating her boyfriend talked excitedly about having children. After he proposed he began calling her “The Babymaker.” She then confided with him that one of her fallopian tubes was blocked. He in return insisted she see a fertility doctor. She recounts, “I had finally met a great guy who was eager to start a family with me. What woman wouldn’t fall for that?” Soon after her honeymoon he persisted on in an obsessive manner, but his efforts had to be temporarily halted as she had to get emergency back surgery. Alas, 6 months into recovery he was back to pressuring her again. She was in much pain at the time due to her back, but she agreed to In Vitro Fertilization. She then became pregnant, but soon miscarried. In response, her husband grabbed her by the neck, choking her. He apologized, blaming his outburst on his grief and had her sign up for another round of IVF. And then a third round. She tried to put him off with the excuse that she needed to weigh more before she could take treatments, her husband forced her to get on the scale often and filled the fridge with fattening foods. “It hurt that all I was good for was getting pregnant.” She recounts. At the end, he screamed at her, threatening to replace her with a maid if she couldn’t get pregnant and she told him she no longer wanted to have his child. He destroyed bedroom furniture, pushed her down the stairs and threatened her with a gun. She fled to a domestic violence shelter.
The second story was about a woman who faced marital rape. This woman was 40, had a then boyfriend and two children from a previous marriage. After telling her boyfriend she did not want any more children, her boyfriend refused to wear a condom and began to rape her. She then became pregnant with her third child. Birth control was never an option for her because she couldn’t hide pills anywhere for he went through all of her belongings. Three months after giving birth, he raped her again, impregnating her with twins. She lost the twins in a physical fight with him, but soon became pregnant again. During her recovery she begged her obstetrician to remove her ovaries and devise a lie to tell him; that she had cancer. After a decade of sexual abuse and violence she was able to get a job that kept her out of the house and often times traveling.
One in four callers to the National Domestic Abuse hotline said that their partners had tried to force them to become pregnant. Why? As one woman stated, “Its like he wants to own me from the inside out.” Having a baby is the perfect tie that binds. These type of abusers want to create a circumstance in which their partner is dependent on him.
WHAT’S THAT HAVE TO DO WITH PLANNED PARENTHOOD?
Many voters never consider how defunding these clinics could hurt victims of domestic violence who turn to them for counseling as well as pregnancy prevention. Abused women will turn to health care providers long before they will turn to domestic abuse hotlines and organizations. Many women in abusive relationships rely on life saving, affordable care programs such as Title X. It is critical that such places are open and operation when women and children need them so desperately.
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About me
I'm 24. College Graduate. I love to read. I am pro-choice. I support gay rights. I'm atheist. I owe you no explanations.
